We hold the following values at the Ale:
- We strive to create an event that welcomes a diversity of experience where everyone can enjoy dancing and socializing together. Members of our community have different tolerances for physical contact, direct social interaction, and the physical environment around them. One person’s experience is not more important than anyone else’s.
- We recognize that our behaviors can impact how others experience the Ale. We want to be collectively thoughtful about the community as a whole.
- We aspire to be a comfortable space for everyone, regardless of age, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, (dis)ability, physical appearance, race, religion/spirituality, or other aspects of identity. We do not tolerate harassment in any form.
We expect Ale attendees to:
- Respect consent, both verbal and nonverbal.
- You are empowered to say “no” to anyone for anything, without giving a reason.
- Take “no” for an answer whether the question concerns singing, socializing, sex, or anything else.
- During Ale activities in which participation implies a level of consent to being touched, behave kindly and considerately. Seek verbal or nonverbal consent before engaging in any additional touch.
- Not intentionally cross anyone’s boundaries nor harass them. We understand that crossing boundaries is not always intentional, but attempt to comply with all feedback and change your behaviors accordingly.
- Refrain from racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, sexist, or other behavior that degrades, shames, or disrespects others for any aspect of their identity.
- Avoid intimidating, threatening, stalking, and unwanted sexually suggestive comments and gestures.
- Avoid yelling or swearing at others or using language reasonably expected to make another person feel inferior.
- Recognize that the Ale takes a great deal of effort from many individuals, and consider pitching in to help.